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We all need to be diligent advocates




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Louise Zanré, Director of JRS UK, shares her vision for a better world and invites us to join advocacy efforts alongside refugees to make the case for their dignity
Advocacy is one of the three parts of the JRS mission. We often spend a lot more time on accompaniment and service - I suspect because many of us attracted to working for JRS are what I think of as being at heart "people persons". We derive energy and inspiration from being present both with and two the people we accompany. We build relationships and endeavour to offer and to receive hope, dignity and justice through those relationships. And we often do not make enough of the advocacy opportunities we have had and the fact that peoples' lives are changed as a result.

Being a "people person" myself I get a great deal of pleasure from meeting new people and having the opportunity of explaining to them a little about the reality of the lives of the people we accompany, whether those left destitute by the asylum system in the UK or those who have been detained, and the work of JRS. As a person of faith and conviction I base much of that message I share on the values underpinning the mission of JRS. I dream of a new world of dignity and justice, where everyone is treated with equality and compassion. I hope that, when I speak to groups, or at events; when I have meetings with civil servants, politicians; when I attend network meetings of partner organisations; when I write articles, that I am able to speak with truth, compassion and with passion and that the people I address or meet with are better equipped to conceive of and to want to work towards that new world.

It is a big ask - of myself and of those listening - and I am sure that I am not always as effective as I might be. It is also a big ask as we are up against so much. There are too many myths about refugees and asylum seekers. The world is far from perfect and sometimes the issues we are confronted with can seem to be insurmountable. It is difficult to know what response to make to the fact that so many people are being forced to risk dangerous journeys to get to Europe; to the fears that so many people have over competition for resources, jobs, housing or health care provision.

However it is especially at this time when things can seem to be so dark and depressing that it is of particular importance that we do try our best to counter a prevailing message of blame, of not being able to be generous, of not being able to participate together in society.

A new immigration bill was announced recently in the Queen's speech. Unsurprisingly, the highlights make for pretty depressing reading - landlords having to check immigration status of prospective tenants to determine if they can legally rent housing to them, appeal rights only being permissible in immigration cases after deportation, making it more difficult for immigrants to get bank accounts, making money earned from illegal working the proceeds of criminal activity and therefore able to be confiscated, to name a very few. On top of existing restrictions they make the UK a very unwelcoming place indeed.

In the face of this we all need to be diligent advocates. We will be sharing with you campaigns against particular measures - whether to stop indefinite detention; to try and convince our government to resettle more refugees; or to lobby MPs about the immigration bill. But we will also be asking you to listen to the experiences of our refugee friends, their hopes and dreams. And we will be asking you to work with us to dream a new world, to try to be more welcoming ourselves in everything we do or say, to challenge injustice and to pray and reflect. Without our refugee friends and without you, nothing I nor JRS can do will substantially change things.

All Are Welcome at the Table of God

A photo by Jürgen Treiber_Fotor.com

Here is a reflection by Jyoti, who volunteers at the JRS Day Centre since 2 years

The vision of the JRS Day Centre for me comes from the Bible: the table of God where all are welcome, regardless of caste or creed. This is the place where all are given their place, their respect. This is the atmosphere we have here and this is the welcoming attitude we have for our guests.

I like of course talking to each person! First of all opening the door… Open the door, give a smile and a welcoming gesture. It is for me an openness to receive each one, the receptiveness, and then you see the smile on the other’s side. One of them who came recently was a new one, it was her first time. The day she came she was really down, the second time she came here her face was so peaceful and calm. I asked her and she said it was because I met the cheerful people, the good people here.

That is the difference we make. Those who come with their burdens, feelings of what is happening to them… so even one smile makes a big difference. What I see differently, what I have learnt myself as a volunteer, well as you can see, a smile is my main motto here! Sincerely, despite all the difficulties, if they can smile, what if I can not give a smile. I see that from the other side, so it brings such a difference.

Then, I was on the desk for the travel money. Money is a big thing in their life, they don’t have money, and although we are giving little, it is very supportive to them as other organisations do not give it, they have no access to money. So JRS is doing a very purposeful work which can help them to go to the place they want, the necessary solicitor or reporting at the Home Office. And all the various activities of course, they are ways of freeing them from the tension. Like the massage, the touch makes the person feel healed and loved, all the activities for our guests are very down to earth, and so very helpful for them.

For me dignity is one JRS value that is important to me. People come to the UK looking for dignity a good life, but they end up with nobody respecting them. But this is one of the place that we have that good practice or a very good deep model of dignity. Overall I feel this is a place of hospitality where one feels at home and each volunteer and staff member are so open to cater to our guests in a way they feel welcomed. And of course our compassion to them in their suffering. We give that to each person, respecting them as they are as a person, regarding their person as the image of God.


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CSAN Lent Campaign: Changes Lives

CSAN, or Caritas Social Action Network, in which we are taking part, has launched the Lent Campaign: Changes Lives! Here are some of our JRS volunteers voices on how JRS helps change lives of those marginalised ...


By encouraging refugee women to manage their stress and to focus on their health and wellbeing; by praying together






 By enabling people to develop their own voice

By providing companionship and emotional support

Through sharing, listening and praying with and for people who have been detained, in a non-judgemental way

By teaching us how we can help make a difference

By treating people with dignity; encouraging people to participate; and by giving people a voice


Accompaniment; journeying with; listening; building relationships; learning mutually

By finding creative opportunities for our refugee friends to have peace, dignity and to have some fun
By respecting each person as they are, without any discrimination!

Thank you, all! If you are interested, here is the link to CSAN.

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Advent, Christmas 2014

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Sister Marguerite, a volunteer with JRS, reflects on joy and suffering at this special time of Christmas.

Today is Gaudete Sunday, a day of rejoicing, of joy as we await the birth of Jesus. So many thoughts run through my mind as I write. Pope Francis’ Apostolic Encyclical, ‘Evangelli Gaudium’, the Joy of the Gospel, the Joy of the Good News, calls me and challenges us to be people of joy. But how can there be joy when there is so much suffering and conflict in our beautiful but broken world right now? One has only to turn on the TV or read the newspapers about Syria, Iraq, IS, Boko Haram, Taliban, ebola, etc etc etc, and cannot help but feel joyless. And yet, joy and suffering are two sides of the same coin. Buddha wisely said, ‘Life is suffering!?’ Jesus said the same, ‘One cannot be my disciple unless she/he takes up the cross daily and follow me.’

Paradox of suffering suffused with joy, of joy embracing suffering. It is just over two years now since I started volunteering with the Jesuit Refugee Service. Only yesterday the person I had been visiting at the detention center was deported, the pain of walking with him in his suffering. But I need to balance it with the wonderful surprise of a phone call last week from another who was given permission to stay, her refugee status granted and inviting her home for a meal to celebrate and share in her joy. Another courageous young man with astounding faith is still in a detention centre. Paradoxically, instead of draining my energy, visiting him gives me life. A terrific life example of one suffering intensely but with such faith and courage that brings a deep joy in embracing his cross.

They, each one, edify and challenge me and give me much, much more than what I am or try to do for them. And yet, so many are still smiling amidst their suffering, some for long years and wow! Their faith and courage are amazing. I would probably have crumbled if I were in their shoes. ‘I see better now and my eyes hurt.’ (Audre Lorde). To keep believing that God has become human, He knows, He understands and He is in everything, both our joys and our sufferings. To learn again the great paradox that the deeper the pain carved, the more radiant the joy. In today’s reading at Mass, the prophet Isaiah is also speaking to me and all of us, ‘He has sent me to bring good news to the poor, to bind up hearts that are broken…I exult for joy in the Lord.’ Meister Eckhart said, ‘What good is it to me for our Creator to give birth to His Son, if I do not also give birth to Him in my place, my time, my culture?’


As Christians prepare to mark Christ’s birth we can find ways to be more aware of God’s presence in our world and our own lives right here and now! May God grant us the grace to learn to be more aware of Her/His incarnate presence in everyone and every experience, in joy and in suffering. Let us pray earnestly for peace which our world is in such need of today. May the Prince of Peace give me, you, all people, peace in our hearts and homes, which will flow out to our communities and the whole world. A Peace which only God can give, peace in times of joy and especially in times of suffering. Joy to the world, the Prince of Peace has come!

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Me and JRS

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Pauline, from the Democratic Republic of Congo, told us about her experience with JRS-UK. She has been in the UK for 6 years and coming to JRS for 3 years. She attends our Day Centre regularly on a Thursday and is a member of our Women’s Prayer Group which meets every week on a Tuesday.

Coming here for me, I have a nice story here. It has given me joy! If I did not come here, I would not feel good. I don’t know what it is about JRS, but I love it too much here!
Here, they help me, This one is my house, when I come here I am happy. I don’t have family here, so in this place, I have tea with my friends. They are helping me. I have my plate and my mug which Louise gave to me. So when I see them I see her!
This country gives me no work, no job, no chance to earn money. But if you have your appointments, you still need your Oyster card... Here they give you money for your tickets: to sign in (report) for the Home Office, for hospital appointments...
Every week I have appointments. I have been in the hospital three times. Jonathan from JRS came to visit me. He was so kind.
I was going to college, but I was sick, so now I can’t go. Maybe next year I will start again to study English, I would like to improve my English.
These challenges... they go on for a long time, many years. This country, many people are coming here, with then lots of problems: no places to sleep, staying only with friends... This place, JRS, helps all people.
Every Tuesday, I come here with the women to pray. The massage with Magda is helping me too. I love it, I feel good!
What is next for me? I don’t know, I am very sad in this country, it is too hard. One day when I have my papers, I will go to work. I will go to college and get training. I would like to do care work, to care for others. I am a very caring person.
When I pray, I pray for God to help this charity, to go a long way, it helps everybody who is coming here.
I like to say God bless these people, I thank God very much for these people.

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JRS Europewide!




Our volunteer Liliane visited Romania from 13th to 15th Oct to take part in a JRS meeting. She kindly answered for an interview after the trip.

Q: Tell me about the event in Romania. What was the occasion?
Liliane: It was JRS Europe Annual General Meeting. The topic was Accompaniment this year. In the workshop, JRS staff and volunteers from all around Europe participated. From our JRS UK, Jonathan, Kate, Sr Margaret and I participated.

Q: What did do you and learn?
L: During the three days, we looked around a hostel for asylum seekers run by the city council in Bucharest, attended workshops, and visited JRS Romania main office, ‘My place’ as they call it. And we had a chance to see the sights and to have meals out to enjoy each other’s company. We also had a Mass together on the last day of our visit.
In one of the workshop sessions, we were divided into small groups and discussed. Afterwards we had presentations. In the first workshop, the questions were what the difficulties we face in our working places were, why they were difficult, and how we solved the issues.
We also listened to the differentprocesses of welcoming refugees in various countries and we talked about how to accompany others. I learned, in order to accompany them, we need to be passionate and listening to them attentively.
I could see that different countries have different situations. I met one refugee who was complaining about the lengthy process he had to undergo, but I told him that in some other places, it could be worse.
I also saw that JRS Romania was doing many good works.For example, they run language courses, help the refugees to obtain citizenship and accommodation, and give legal advice. It is possible because they have many staff members.

Q: How did you feel about this trip and what did you like most?
L: I was very excited about this trip because it was the first of such a kind of trip in ten years. It was great to meet people from different backgrounds and to share our works with each other. I learned a lot. And the place we stayed was also very nice.

Q: Finally, anything you would like to say?
L: Well, I really enjoyed the trip and am grateful to JRS for giving me this opportunity. I am also proud of our JRS UK for what we do. Thank you very much.
 


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Citizens UK Catholic Socialist Teaching Conference


Conference Room Abstract - photo by Tanakawho
Our Outreach / Development volunteer, Eva, attended a conference on Catholic Socialist Teaching earlier this month. She shared with us about the occasion.

It was exciting to attend Tuesday's 8 October Citizens UK event on Catholic Socialist Teaching, hosted at Trinity School in Woodford, in Northeast London. The day brought together Catholic and Jewish community groups, with a Conference on Catholic socialist teaching in the morning, and solidarity action with Jewish groups in the afternoon, asking Redbridge Council to take in five vulnerable refugees from Syria.
The Conference was opened by Dr Paul Doherty, Head-teacher at Trinity school, who reminded us that Catholic socialist teaching is, in essence, written in the Gospel, calling upon the individual to destroy the old love of self and create a new love of the other. Catholic socialist teaching, like the Gospel, asks us to make a social action of involvement with the other.
After tea, we broke up in two groups. I joined the group of Sophie Stevens from Citizens UK, who made a short presentation of what it means to be a Leader. Sophie asked each of us to list one quality to describe a Leader. We came up with many: organised, active, passionate, team-oriented, firm, communicative, well-groomed, fair, courageous, creative, compassionate, patient, cooperative, articulate, trusted, listener, funny, soft-spoken, determined, outspoken, humble, intelligent… and concluded that no one person would possess all, but possibly some of these traits. Sophie concluded that since nobody is perfect, the only definition of a Leader is “somebody who has a following”. That was encouraging news, all of us in the room could be a Leader, as long as we had a following !
St Anne’s Catholic School Sixth Form students then presented a case study: the students had put together a listening campaign to understand the complaints by members in their community. The elderly in the community especially had felt intimidated by the students, and the poll made the students aware that together, each individual action of giving up a seat on the bus, or speaking with a quiet voice, could make a change in the community and in the perception of the school as a whole.
Before lunch, Citizens UK presented its Manifesto for Civil Society, inviting schools, faith communities, unions and voluntary organisations to participate in public life in anticipation of next year's general election. After salad and pizza, Mgr Armitage offered the closing address, reflecting on the significance of Catholic socialist teaching for the Catholic and the wider community, as a tool to make a change. Finally, Daniel Macintosh of Citizens UK invited all present, to join in the afternoon action with Bet Tikvah, a Jewish community organisation, marking the Jewish festival of Sukkoth. The action was local, showcasing several tents outside Bet Tikvah synagogue, illustrating the living conditions of refugees and asking Jas Athwal, the Leader of Redbridge Council, to accommodate five highly vulnerable Syrian refugees. I’m afraid I missed this last bit, as I headed home with the national representative of St Vincent de Paul Society, musing that the day had been one full of inspiration, encouraging us to work with others, and join in solidarity to defend the cause of the poor and the wretched.

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A Visit of Heart to Heart



London, 04 July 2014 - In this testimony from the UK a JRS volunteer describes her unexpected encounter with an Afghan man held in an immigration removal centre. This chance meeting of two people, one free and the other detained, reveals a surprising role-reversal and highlights the inner human spirit that knows no borders.

One day I made an unscheduled visit to the detention centre. Neither the officials nor the detainees were expecting me, so I settled down in the multi-faith room and looked around at the books of different religious texts, the floor, the walls, and the carpet. There were no windows in this room making it impossible for anyone to connect with the outside world. Time passed slowly and alone I began to regret not informing the centre of my intended visit.

Then suddenly I saw Feizal.

When I first met Feizal he was very pale and was constantly being admitted to hospital. Often depleted of energy, he seemed withdrawn and sad. English is not Feizal's first language and he struggled to express himself the first time we met. However, today was different.

Like most detainees, Feizal has a sad story. Feizal's hometown is in Waziristan, a troubled border area between Pakistan and Afghanistan. The Taliban killed his father and then tried to force Feizal to fight for them. A school teacher, and a pacifist, he could think of nothing worse than killing another human being: so he refused. Consequently, the Taliban issued an order that Feizal be killed. He had to go into hiding. Feizal's mother managed to give him enough money to travel to the UK.

As soon as Feizal reached the UK he claimed asylum. His claim was refused and he was placed in immigration detention.

On seeing me sitting alone, Feizal immediately came up and sat next to me. His health had greatly improved and his downtrodden demeanour was replaced with one of strength. His English had also greatly progressed.

Feizal told me stories of his childhood and how he loved playing cricket. I complimented him on his dramatic improvement in English: he said this was due to him attending English classes at the detention centre. In the future, he hoped to teach English.

One gesture that will always stay with me was when Feizal pointed upwards and said with a big smile, "Above everyone, above the Taliban, above the law, there is Allah."

Despite all of his difficulties, Feizal still retained complete trust and confidence in God.

I left the centre feeling extremely humbled. I had set out with the intention of helping detainees. Instead, I had received care from a detainee. Although Feizal had so many problems of his own, he cared about my well-being and spent nearly an hour trying to make me feel valued, so that I wouldn't feel I had wasted my time in coming to the centre.

I realised that Feizal's actions were ones of true love: the giving of the self to the other. Feizal did not have money, did not have power nor even his liberty but still he had his heart and he chose to use it to make me feel better. And for that I will be forever grateful.

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Bianca Venkata is a volunteer member of the JRS UK detention-outreach team and visits detainees at an immigration removal centre in the UK.
If you would like to join as a volunteer, come and visit JRS UK Volunteering.

How many people can you fit around one table?

Greetings in different languages!

Kate, a member of staff, shares one of her favourite things about JRS

How many people can you fit around one table? At JRS today we had 20 people sat around our lunch table. This is one of my favourite things about JRS – we eat together every weekday. Each day, whoever is at the office or community centre sits down together. And then we clear up, wash up and tidy up. It is an important time in our working day and there is usually laughter and news to catch up on.

Mostly we have simple food: bread, cheese, cold meats, houmous, salad and a piece of fruit each. Sometimes if it is someone’s birthday, we share cake. Other times if we have had an event the day before there is leftover pasta or a pudding to eat up. If we are few, we always set an extra place for a late comer or a guest arriving in time for an appointment or meeting. Some days, one of our refugee friends comes to have their only meal for the day. On other days, visitors are caught up in the hubbub of chatting together.

We share stories, we try to learn each others languages and talk very little about work. It is a special time to deepen our relationships, appreciate each others’ culture and feel like a community together. It helps us see people outside of their roles and learn different perspectives in an open and relaxed way. Today we were from 15 countries from across 4 continents: interns, refugee friends, Jesuits, volunteers, members of staff… each one welcome in their own right and appreciated for who they are.

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A Mass for Migrants & A Message for me!

St. Frances Cabrini - the Patron Saint of Migrants
Statue in St. George's Cathedral, Southwark

JRS Volunteer Marguerite recounts her enjoyment of attending a special event for migrants this month.

‘The Mass for Migrants has been celebrated every May bank holiday since 2006, when it was first introduced by the then Archbishop of Westminster, Cardinal Cormac Murphy-O’Connor; at the suggestion of London Citizens. The Cardinal’s call at that Mass is for a more just treatment of migrants rooted in Catholic Social Teaching. Each year since then the event has reminded London of the invaluable contribution of so many migrants to the city’s society and economy. It offers a profound witness to the Church’s insistence that the dignity of the human person is God-given and never withdrawn and reminds us of the deep resonance with refugee and asylum seekers.’ (Extract from introduction in Mass booklet)

It was my privilege to be able to be there yesterday at a packed Westminster Cathedral. Before the Mass commenced the colourful and joyful procession of different migrant communities with their banners, music and dressed in their national clothes was indeed an Alleluia! Alleluia! Alleluia celebration. Bishop Patrick Lynch, one of the auxiliary bishops of Southwark, concelebrated with approximately fifty priests from Westminster, Southwark and Brentwood dioceses. It was noticeable that almost a third of the priests were from outside Europe. A blessing for our Church here in England and Wales today. VIPs included mayors/mayoresses from different boroughs of London, MPs, ambassadors of various countries and representatives from other faiths and Christian denominations. But THE VIPs were the migrants, each and everyone present from all over the world not only in this great city of London but in UK. Bidding prayers were in Polish, Mandarin, Swahili, French, Portuguese, Tagalog and English, a wee taste of the languages spoken in London churches. When the Our Father was prayed each according to their own native tongue, it did remind me of Pentecost! Poignantly, given recent events in his country, the Communion anthem was performed by a Ukranian soloist.

It would not do justice to Patrick Lynch’s profound homily to try to share what he said and I wish I had a copy to write it here. He quoted strongly from Evangelii Gaudium. He highlighted two main areas: Human Trafficking and Children of undocumented migrant workers, ‘no way in and no way out’ in their plight. Hopefully those present who have the clout to do something will not turn a deaf ear. As a volunteer at L’Arche and Jesuit Refugee Services, I have no clout, but that does not exempt me from not turning a deaf ear to God’s message for me. I found myself inspired, challenged, disturbed and consoled, all at the same time as I left the Cathedral and made my way to Colnbrook detention center for my weekly visit there.

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Men for Men: Listen the Word to Pronounce Our Own Words



Gonzague is a French Jesuit studying in London. He is currently accompanying a sharing group for men once a month. Here is his reflection on his experience with the people.

Who are we? Once a month we are around 10 that meet from many different places: Nigeria, Eritrea, Ivory Coast, Angola, Algeria, Tunisia, Iran, Pakistan, France, Korea… but also from many different faiths: evangelical Christians, Catholics, Muslims, Atheists. We have only two common points: we are all foreigners and we are all men.

What are we doing? During around one hour we are trying to listen and to speak. First of all we listen to a text, a Biblical text. We read it three times. After the first reading, each one can pronounce one word from the text, which is important for him, after the second reading, one sentence and after the third reading we are invited to share how this text echoes my experience, my life, my beliefs, my struggles. Finally we do not only listen to the text, but also to the others, and from its words and from their words each one can try to express where he is and what he lives.

For what are we doing that? Why are our meetings so joyful? To be honest it is a bit mysterious. While as men we can quite easily discuss about politics, football; but as asylum seekers experiencing destitution and exclusion we are often silent. In this group, we can speak about the experience of detention, of our struggles to continue to live in the dignity, in the good, but also about our hope to have one day a normal life.

Paradoxically being among men helps us to access for one another the deeper good characteristic of our humanity: the Word and our own words. In this group, we can shout to God and to our brothers, “I know that I will live to see the Lord's goodness in this present life. Trust in the Lord. Have faith, do not despair.”


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A place just "to be"...


A personal reflection from a JRS volunteer, Sr Juliana, who offers her thoughts after being with JRS for a couple of months...

My journey at Jesuit Refugee Service, it all started during our CSJP's Congregation (Congregation of Sisters of St. Joseph of Peace) experience here in London, as we explore where God is calling and leading us for future ministries in accordance with the signs of times and the needs of the world today. Right form that day something really touched and stayed with me, I felt something within, is had to name and to express what it is.

JRS as an international catholic non-governmental organization with a mission to accompany, serve and defend the rights of refugees and forcibly displaced people; is very much in line with our Charism of Peace through Justice. The question is often asked, why on earth should one had anything to do with ex-offenders, law breakers. Others feel that these people should get what they deserve and go where they belong. This attitude deeply touched and challenged me when I hear these words towards refugees and asylum seekers. At the same time what a remarkable witness of people who are willing to risk their lives by trying to live against this way of thinking, the logic and standards of the world; by working with people on the margins, helping those that nobody wants to help in terms of political, socio-economic and national policies and structures. With individuals not given a fair and good hearing and unfairly treated.

As a CSJP invited to follow in the footsteps of Jesus, I questioned myself how do I live and apply the Charism of Peace through Justice where people are not respected, believed in or listened to and considered as individuals and persons?  Why do I choose to go to JRS? It was because as CSJP I am called to live and think differently from the logic and standards of the world, to live in a new way the concept of basic human rights – our common humanity that fosters mutuality equality. I was welcomed within the team at JRS, making it possible for me to fit in very well, and we really worked very well together.

The situations of all those that visit the centre are very complex, difficult and sad, but the team acting as a community where everyone is family really makes a huge difference for the friends receiving service. As Henri Nouwen said: "Hospitality is primarily the creation of free space where the stranger can enter and become a friend instead of an enemy". I was involved in the administration (updating files, reception and welcoming); Day Centre (variety) and the women's group. The main purpose of the work with the women is to see to their personal well-being - physical, emotional, moral and spiritual (activities like relaxation exercises, reflexology and contemplative prayer circle are offered to help them) All of this aims to create a place for them just "TO BE", a time of relaxation and companionship. For me, the group itself was a witness: there are no barriers, no best way, no better language, and no better expression! We relate to God as we are and in the same way we relate to one anther. There were times when I was challenged and really experienced my own poverty, because many times I didn't feel I was actually doing anything, I had just to sit with the participants, even if communication was difficult. The communication of acceptance, equality and that atmosphere of shared common humanity spoke more than anything indeed. I became aware that sometimes even without words my attitudes can be discriminating and marginalizing of others. My experience at JRS, what really stayed with me is that "If I can't change people's situation, but I will try to love them".

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Detention

Today is Friday and I am at a loose end. There’s no letter for me to write today as ‘my’ detainee has disappeared and this time it isn’t simply a transfer between detention centres.   Once again I have been touched by the kindness of one of the detention centre staff who bothered to return my last letter.  It is because of this that we know he really has been sent back to his country, and I would rather know what has happened to him than feel he has been lost somewhere in the system. So it’s Friday and there’s an empty space in my day; time to reflect a little more on befriending.

His deportation has set me thinking about my own family. I wonder just how many of us have refugees, economic migrants asylum seekers in our own family histories?  My first known ancestor here in Norfolk was a refugee. He came from the Low Countries in part of what is today Belgium, but as a Protestant in a Catholic country sought asylum in England.  His memorial stone in a Norwich city church simply bears his name and the fact that he was born ‘beyond the seas in 1581’.  These Dutch and French speaking incomers formed a strong community in the city and through their skills in horticulture and weaving, brought it great wealth. (Note for the football minded - it was the Dutch ‘Strangers’ who first brought canaries to this country - hence the popular name of the Norwich Football Club.)

Immigrants from the Low Countries to Norfolk are known as the Strangers and it is this word that takes me straight to the Gospel; ‘I was a stranger and you took me in.’*  My detainee has gone to Africa to a life I cannot imagine. Just as he was a stranger here, he will after these years away from his country and people be a stranger now in his own home land.  I am thankful that my ancestor was made welcome here in England - else where would I be now!? Thankful too that I have had the opportunity via JRS to exchange letters with a stranger here in England.  I sincerely hope and pray that my penfriend is taken in and made welcome, given food, shelter and especially safety wherever he is now.

* Matthew 25:35

Pat W


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